How to Parent in Public

How to Parent in Public

Grocery-store manager
"A grocery store can be a fascinating place for kids-if you frame it that way.  I have one customer who brings his 4-year-old with him and he narrates as they shop, 'Wow, look how many types of eggs there are-white, brown, organic, cage-free.'  His daughter may not retain all of the information, but she never gets fussy. If you are faced with interminable whining, instead of repeatedly promising, 'we'll be outta here in five minutes,' put your child in charge of picking up a couple of simple items- the milk with the blue label or the cereal in the orange box. A mini grocery list of his very own takes his eyes off the exit sign and makes him feel important."

The family-restaurant owner
"To keep kids happy while dining out, bribing them with your iPhone is not the solution.  If you are out with friends and your kids are over age 5, seat the adults at one table and the children at another right next to yours.  Kids love being treated like adults, and they actually fuss less when they have a little space from their parents. If you have toddlers, go early (i.e., 5 to 6 P.M.) the kitchen can jump on your order and you may not be crammed next to other diners, so you won't feel as stressed if the milk is spilled or they hoot a little.  Try to find the restaurant's menu online and take the kids order before you get there."

The toy-store owner
"Avoiding the gimmes is a perennial issue.  If you are with a toddler, be quick; it's hard for them to understand that they can't have everything.  A short trip means less opportunity for your kid to notice all the fun toys.  With older children, tell them up front the precise reason for the shopping trip, whether it's a reward for them or to get a birthday present for a friend, and exactly how many items you are going to buy.  Then ask them to help pick something out in a certain price range. Concentrating on details and having a sense of empowerment will make them feel helpful and a bit more special."

The flight attendant
"When traveling with kids, always pack extras-of everything.  If you have a long flight, take along a change of clothes for everyone.  Drinks spill, dinners drop, and there is always the risk of motion sickness.  And even if nothing goes wrong, airplanes are notoriously chilly, so bring socks and sweaters to stay cozy at 30, 000 feet.  also be sur eto pack plety of snacks!  Plane have such limited storage space that we often don't have extra food for those times when hunger strikes-especially in the event of an unexpected delay.  And remember: Don't be afraid to ask us to help! We are happy to lend a hand, whenever possible.  After takeoff most of us are more than willing to hold a baby or watch sleeping children while you use the restroom.  Babyfood and formula can always be warmed up."



Posted by: Georgie


Credit: Parents magazine